Practice · Nonprofits
Nonprofit relationship management: measure momentum, not activity
Activity metrics reward motion. Momentum measures whether relationships are actually advancing — here is how to track it across your nonprofit.
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Activity is easy to count and easy to fake
Calls logged, emails sent, touches recorded: all countable, none conclusive. A team can be enormously busy while every meaningful relationship quietly cools.
Momentum asks a harder question — is this relationship closer to the mission than it was a month ago?
Three states are enough
Stalled means no meaningful contact within the window this relationship needs, or an overdue commitment. Active means a live conversation with an owned next step. Advancing means promises kept and gates cleared.
Three states keep the conversation honest in a staff meeting. Nobody argues about a score they cannot interpret.
Review momentum weekly, not quarterly
Quarterly reviews catch losses after they happen. A weekly ten-minute momentum pass catches them while a phone call still fixes it.
Bring the list, name owners, and let the guidance system remember the rest.